Days with this boy are unpredictable. There is sweetness and laughter, cuteness and fun. But also? Tears, whining, screaming, and a stubborn determination to do the opposite of anything anyone suggests. He is exactly
two-and-a-half. So I really shouldn't be surprised. (And for you mothers of two-year-olds who have no idea what I'm talking about? Well, what can I say? Lucky you!)
There are a few tricks of the trade for coping with this phase. Notice, I said coping, not solving. I'm convinced that little ones have their phases that can not (should not) be rushed along and the best strategy is to simply hold on tight through the bumpy ride.
So what do we do? We pick our battles, and try to recognize when to stand firm and when to let it go (keeping in mind that children can learn to be flexible when we model flexibility). We try to make sleep a priority, since a well-rested kid tends to be a happier kid. And a hefty dose of playful parenting, keeping little hands busy, and errands with daddy all help too.
When all that fails: deep breathing and chocolate. For mommy.
